Lasting Friendship

Ever had a friend who became your closest but as time passes your closeness became monotonous and eventually your friendship fell apart...

kung dati text hanggang magsawa at wala ng mapagkuwentuhan..ngayon.. ilang ng makipagusap..kung dati kasama sa gimik..ngayon hindi mo alam kung ano na trip niya..kung dati alam mo kung saan siya..ngayon nasaan na siya??

Is this what friendships have become? Nagkakasawaan na rin? I'm just wondering coz im really sensitive when it comes to my friends and i know this will sound weird but i treasure my friends as the way i treasure my family.. kaya nung may narinig akong ganito (which i dont deny na naranasan ko na rin) from some of my friends napaisip rin ako.

i've had friends like that before -we were "close" for quite some time, then all of a sudden

(due to school or some other reason) there's no communication or anythin to even keep the friendship alive.

Heres one best article that i found here in the internet.

A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.When someone is in your life for a

REASON it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a

SEASON because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Dam i love my friends.